My husband was Finnish and very proud of his heritage. The Finns are quirky. Their traditions a little different. As Mike taught me - they don't say kiss my ass, but instead say "heista nupa" - smell my belly button. One thing about the Finns I admire is what they call Sisu. Google "Sisu" and you'll find a plethora of explanations. Wikipedia states that Sisu is a compound of bravado and bravery, of ferocity and tenacity, of the ability to keep fighting after most people would have quit. It is strength of will, determination, perseverance, and acting rationally in the face of adversity. The Finns translate Sisu as "the Finnish spirit" but it is a much more gutful word than that. It is not a word that translates exactly into English - it is more of a concept. I've faced quite a bit of adversity in my short time on this Earth. Sometimes I think I'm God's little experiment - how much shit can He throw at me before I crack. I'm not saying I'm somehow unique - everyone has their own adversity and it comes in many forms, but if you have a few hours, get in touch and I'll give you a run down of my adversity. Ask any Finn about Sisu and they will definitely be familiar with the term. It is in their hearts and in their souls. I never truly understood it or embraced it. Mike spoke of Sisu and gave the Finnish explanation for it - guts and determination - but I would say that, until April 14, 2011, I never truly comprehended its meaning. I have people tell me quite often how they can't believe I'm functioning. How, if they were in my shoes, they would have crawled into the fetal position and never moved from it. Trust me - I have those days. But what choice do I have? I have to go on until God is tired of His experiments and welcomes me home. Until then, I must herald on, taking it day by day - the good with the bad. While I merely married into the Finnish heritage, I finally understand and embrace Sisu. It is what drives me, what helps me get out of bed every morning. I have faced adversity and continue to face it every day. Sisu is my determination to try and make the best of my remaining days on Earth and to honor my husband's memory every day and in every way I can. I thank Mike for introducing me to all that is Finnish, for I now face each day with the realization that what must be done will be done, regardless of what it takes - Sisu. |
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